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Matters of the Mind
By
Beverly Moore |
Question:
What kind of activity is suitable for my dad with
Alzheimer’s? He loved to play golf and played cards with my
mom, but otherwise had few hobbies.
Answer:
It is good that you are planning activity for your dad.
Activity of any kind; physical, mental or social stimulates
the brain and keeps a person engaged in life. It also builds
brain cells. Contrary to previous thought, we continue to
make brain cells even when the brain is damaged. Engaging in
activity is important for using up energy too.
Family members want to plan appropriate activities; ones
that will be enjoyable for the person. An activity that is
adapted to his ability now is best. For example, if your dad
doesn’t golf 9 holes, perhaps taking him to the putting
green would be a way to tap an old enjoyed activity. Perhaps
miniature golf is an option. Go at a slow time so he doesn’t
feel rushed.
If he liked playing cards, adapt the game to suit his level
of present ability. Just holding cards, whether playing the
game correctly or well, is often enough to bring enjoyment.
If he cannot play a card game, perhaps sharing a game of
‘war’ with a grandchild will help him feel connected. If the
child is old enough, he can call out who won the hand.
It is important to choose activity that stimulates but
doesn’t frustrate him. Concentration is a problem for most
people with dementia so it is a mistake to expect the person
to continue an activity if not shared with someone else;
perhaps your mom, grandkids or you. What is wanted more than
anything is staying in relationships with those he cares
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About The Author
Beverly is
owner of Alzheimer Coaching Services which serves eastern
Massachusetts and Rhode Island. ACS offers coaching to
understand dementia and learn how to keep the person with
memory loss integrated in family life. Title III E Older
American Act grants provide free coaching to families in 45
towns and cities in the Bristol, south Norfolk, south shore
and West Suburban areas. No referral is necessary. There is
no restriction of income or age. Beverly’s company is
located in Quincy and she may be reached at (617) 233-1145.
You may read more about her company’s services at
www.alzheimercoachingservices. com. Look for Beverly’s book
Matters of the Mind…and the Heart to be released early 2008
Pre-order your copy @ www.Advantagebookstore.com.
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