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Losing The Human Touch?
By
Mary Beth Barry

Braintree - Let’s take a trip down memory lane! I remember as a child picking up the rotary phone in our home and hearing our neighbors speaking a language I could not understand. They were speaking French on a party line! Each Christmas I received a new transistor radio with a 9 volt battery and an ear piece. The AM radio stations were, at best, limited but played the current music of the time. On Sunday nights the frequencies must have been different and I could hear a Canadian radio station. This was so exciting. We had one black and white television set with a large antenna, usually with a piece of aluminum foil on the top to help with reception. Channels, 2, 4, 5, 7 and later 38 and 56 were the options available and the channels were changed by getting out of the chair and turning the dial.

In hot weather we rolled down the windows in the car and oh yes, we started the car with a key in the ignition and not remotely. Remember drive in movies with the speakers in the window?

Well now we have text messages, emails, voicemails, faxes, IPods, webcams computers and the list goes on and on. I am amazed at watching a four year old maneuver a mouse and recite their favorite web sites as if it was hard wired in their brain from birth.

The point of this little journey was to offer a few examples on how technology has changed our lives in such a short period of time. The list of examples is extensive and mind boggling when you think about it. We now have the option to replace and rebuild body parts and vital organs offering new hope and quality of life to many people who may not have had other options. Technology has opened our world to instantaneous communication anywhere. There is no place to hide anymore.

There are times when the pager, cell phone and text messages are all going off at the same time and may be from the same person who is looking for me. I love it when people call me to tell me they just sent me an email and now I have to deal with the issue twice.

Technology is great but sometimes it makes me wish for simple and quiet. Remember the feeling of going to the mailbox and finding a card or letter from a friend? Or just sitting and having a cup of tea together, face to face, sharing and talking in person. I hope that as we advance in our use of technology that we not lose sight of our personal relationships and Hallmark cards or handwritten letters. Imagine how surprised and happy one of your friends would be to hear from you the “old fashion way”. Enjoy.

 
About The Author

Mary Beth Barry, RN, MSM, CHPN is Director at Hospice of the South Shore. You may reach her at (781) 794-7875 or learn more at www.sshosp.org.

 

 


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